“I’m a grown woman. The haters are definitely wrong if they think I care.” – Christina Milian
In a world where people lived their own lives and focused on their own successes, haters would not be needed. Unfortunately, we do not live in a world like that.
Haters come in all shapes and sizes. They can be friends, family, managers, employees, your neighbor, even your spouse. Fortunately, success and haters go hand-in-hand. In fact, a good indicator that you are on the right path to success is if you start to get haters.
Although haters are losers and have no life, haters give us that extra push to be successful. In other words, haters can make us RICH.
Here are three reasons why we need haters.
They Show Us Their True Colours
We all have 24 hours in a day. For those of us who are working towards greatness and are genuinely happy, we do not have the time to hate on people. Also, we do not have the time to figure out who is a real friend and who is fake.
Because of this, when those around us appear to be haters, we can easily remove them from our lives, making our journey just to success a little bit easier.
They Let Us Know That What Others See As Impossible, Is Possible
Haters love to scream out that we got lucky or we have connections. We may have connections but we certainly are not lucky. In fact, there are very few people who can say they randomly got a call and was gifted $100 Million dollars.
The connections we may have did not come out of thin air. Sometimes our parents built those connections for years or we did that ourselves. The only true luck that we had was that we were born humans and not beetles.
Take their limitations on life as proof that by being limited, you limit your income and limit your happiness.
They Force Us To Succeed
Let’s face it. You probably have never met a hater doing better than you. And that is rightfully so. Successful people do not waste their time hating. They have money to make! I am not referring to competition either. Competitors are driven for results. We embrace them too, and sometimes they are our closest friends!
Haters on the other hand just hate us because we strived while they gave up. From family members to colleagues at work, haters force us to succeed.
On those days that you just want to give up, your desire to not prove your haters right will get you back on track.
At the end of the day, they hate us ’cause they ain’t us!
Until next time,
Live Long and Prosperous.
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